Got this in a mail...

1) If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

2) Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

3) Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

4) Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

5) If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

6) If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

7) Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

8) The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

9) Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

10) If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

11) You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

12) Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

13) Never let a man define who you are.

14) Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

15) A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

16) You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

17) You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

18) You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

19) Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

20) Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

I agree!! So true

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I'M REALLY GLAD BLOGGER SAVES MY DRAFTS AUTOMATICALLY!! I NEARLY LOST THIS POST AFTER MY COMPUTER HANGS!!! THANK GOD!!

I had a fever on Friday!!! I'm 'so glad' it didnt affect my work and studies.. -_-'".. 'cause I stayed in the office with the muscle aches all over til the official knock off time. And I didnt have any lessons on fri too.. Instead it I couldnt go shopping with Jesslyn.. The items on my shopping list still remains... And I promised I would meet her this coming Wed.. I hope there's not more hiccups anymore...


26th May--


Wanted to skip lab today but my fever had subsided by morning 'cause I took 4 Panadol Extra the night before. So I reluctantly went to sch.. Did my lab but was still abit 'retarded' 'cause my hands were shaking when I held the pipette. I hope Zhenxuan din notice that.. heeeheee


Meet Dede after sch at Redhill. Went to settle some matters before heading to town. Shopped around, bought my cap, FINALLY!!! It's from Mooks. A f*cking plain cap which costs me $39.90. But I just wanna get it 'cause I couldnt find any to my liking and I have been searching for it for around 1month.. Oh well... N I received my new tee in the mail!!!



Friends dont let friends talk to ugly guys!! I just love the prints.. It's onli $15 shipped!!


Weet!! Happy!! Went over to Outram and met Xiang for KTV!!! It's been eons since I last saw him... Great to see him again..



Lew, Jasmine, Xiang's fren, Xiang


I truly believed that we should all sing in the afternoon the next time.. I swear my singing sucks to the core yest... Partly due to the poor system.. -_-'"


I was singing Tian tian ye ye with Dede but I passed the mike to Xiang and asked him to finish up the rest of the song, with him singing the female part... I just couldnt reach the high note. He can sing alot better than me.. hehe.... And I wondered why I was a Soprano last time..



Dede initally wanted to take a shot of me with 2 balls of watermelons in my mouth!! Hello.. It's so big.. How to squeeze sia.. Anyway, this pic is equally stupid


Left the place at 3+am... Tired...


27th May--


Lew came to fetch us to Leng Kee to settle some matters again. After that went over to Tiong Bahru Plaza "la kopi". I dont understand why guys like to sae the word "la kopi". It sounds so weird. And I thought drink in hokkien is 'LIM'?? Since when it become 'LA'?? Pardon me.. I dont speak Hokkien.. hehe... Den Lew sent us to Dede's soccer game which was held in a centre. Met the very tame Ser-resh ( Hope I got the spelling right).

She's a golden poodle!!! Such a dear... She loves cuddles...





Went home while Dede played soccer...



See the huge difference in size between Schnappi and Ser-resh.. And, Schnappi doesnt like to take photos... See his expression!!!



Schnappi is so cute wearing the Shrek ears!!!


Alrite.. that's enough for today... Im going dinner!!!

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I did say I wanna fall sick coz I wanna take MC.... But I never say I wanna fall sick on a friday!!! And I'm supposed to meet Jesslyn for our shopping spree later... grrrrr.... I'm sorry Jesslyn... I'm really sick this time.. If not I wouldnt cancel our meetup 'cause shopping's my motivation....


And 1 more annoying thing.... I hope all guys listen up. Please be more sensitive towards the feelings of people around you. And if you need help from them, you gotta make sure that you do it in a way that it is to THEIR convenience, not yours!! The one who you need help from might not feel anything, but other people might think otherwise, especially women. Not clear enough??


Let's take online shopping as an eg.


You bought a top from this seller who only provides postage service. You, in order to save on the postages, wants a meet up. And since the seller is nice enough, she suggested a meetup at her convenience. You can also suggest a time and venue but that is up to the seller whether to accept or not. Now, she suggested a meetup at Boon Lay at 3pm and you cant make it. Instead you scolded her for suggesting a place which is at the far end of S'pore. She, being so wronged, leaves you a negative feedback. So, in the end, you did not get the top as the deal falls through, and also you have a negative feedback and everyone knows that you are such a b*tch!!


Got it??

Labels: I'm feeling farked up

People who got my hp number.... READ THIS!!!


My fone was pronounced BRAIN DEAD at 5.45pm yesterday.


You can still call me... But be expected to 'hello' all the way w/o hearing my response.... So, to save us from all the embarrassment, pls sms me...


And... If you think it's very inconvenient, pls pray hard that I will change my hp soon.... When I say soon, it doesnt mean within this week... It means maybe someday in June or July.. 'cause that's when I will get my pay.... Booooo!! That's how POOR I am right now...


Or, if you cant wait to hear my lovely voice(ahem!), you can contribute just a little to help a needy fellow here.... Look at my wishlist!!!


Thanks everyone...

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Look what I've got here!!











I participated in a door-to-door survey and it's my thank-you gift!!!! I thought it was a 2-way cake but.. oh well, at least better than nth... Although I don't use, or rather, don't know how to use eyeshadow, it's time I start learning!!


I was given a set of forms to fill for the next 7 days, and after that... I will have another thank-you gift!!! Nail Polish!!! By Chanel as well...


Okay, now I pray for SKII, Clarins, CD surveyors to knock at my door!!




I just found out something, A and B noe each other and A dumped the partner to be with C... Anyway, A always do this kind of shit...
喜新厌旧

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WHEN IS MY BANGKOK TRIP???!!!

I suggested to Dede abt going to bangkok in July.. 'cause that's when I will be freed from work and sch... But he will be studying... awww..... If I cannot manage to go this July, then the next break for me will be next yr sometime in Sept!!! That's tooo freaking long can~~~~~ The last trip I went to was HK which was in Sept 2006... It has been 8 months already + 16months to Sept 2008= 24months=2yrs!!!!!


It will be 2 yrs of stale life in S'pore!!!!!! Who can tahan that??


And to add to my frustration, my parents will be going over to Darwin in June for 3 whole weeks!! I duno wat the hell they will be doing there besides the usual visitings + cruising on Uncle Terry's boat/ship/yacht or watever you call that....


Argh..... Someone give me telepot pls!!! I wanna go to where I wanna go.... Bangkok, Taipei, or even Redang or Tioman!!!

Sisters, please drop me an sms telling me that you are planning for a trip real soon ok?? I'm avail for the whole of July!!

Dede, please tell me you have already booked the tickets to Bangkok... Give me a 'lil surprise k??

Labels: Rant

19th May--


MCQ test!!! 52 qns in 55mins.... I think I'm gonna fail...


Met Dede at Taka and bought a rice cooker for his mama... Headed hm after that to take my clothes and left for KTV!!!!!!!!!!


3 guys 1 girl. They concentrated on their soccer match while I K-ed. Keith and Dede sang a few songs only... And we were there for 3 hrs.. Imagine the number of songs I sang.. Nvm, treat it as a practice session for me... Anyway, I found singing in the day is better than singing at nite... So frenz.. next time ktv in the afternoons only...


20th May--


Tiffany Lee Xinyun!!! Went to her full month's celebration yesterday..... She's so cute la!!!




Irene, Weilin, Jesslyn, Mama...
I looked slpy....



I looked slpy






She looked slpy....


I went to Dede's hse after that... As I was walking a path in front of Dede's hse... a man on bicycle rode past me and said Hi... I was talking on the phone with Nana so I just ignored him. He's a man in his early 30s, looked like air con technician coz of his polo tee.. He rode off, constantly turning back and looked at me.. I wished he fell into the drain!! OK.. I finally reached his hse.. and thought of buying drinks from 7-11.. So I walked to another blk and found the same man withdrawing $ near 7-11. I quietly walked past him but he saw me and said Hi again... He's really getting on my nerves... I pretended I din hear anything but wat he said after that really got me boiling!! I walked past him and heard him said,' TaMaDe'


TAMADE??!!! Hello!! What was that for??!! You meant to say that it's my bloody loss to not responding to you?? Did you looked at yourself in the mirror??!! If you do not have, please invest in 1. You really need it. By the way, I wore mid-length sleeve top with black berms.. Not anything flashy...


Ok.. I walked into 7-11. Bought my Big Gulp and Q-ed for payment. That was when he followed me into 7-11, took something off the shelf and q-ed behind me!! I turned and gave him a stare but he din looked at me. That's the only time I took a close look at him. Tanned, small slit eyes, crew cut hair dyed into a horrendous blonde and he was SHORTER than me... I think that turned him off a little.. Not giving him a chance to lay his smelly fingers on me, I walked to the far end of the counter when making payment.


When I was about to leave the counter, he, of all words, scolded,' TaMaDe' again!! WTF!! What was that for again??!! TaMaDe for being born so short and ugly?? Anyway, that got me a lil jittery. I walked out of the 7-11 and RANNNN to Dede's hse... I purposely took the long road with a lot of turns so he won be able to spot me easily. I decided to throw my Big Gulp at him if he caught up with me, even if I'm dying of thirst at that moment. Anyway, I finally reached Dede's hse, after climbing 10 flights of stairs.. Heaved a sigh of relief when I finally sat down on his bed and enjoyed my Big Gulp with TV.

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I saw the dog family roaming on the field I walked past everyday!! Unfortunately, my camera phone couldnt capture a clear shot of them. Time to change a new phone.. heeee
By the way, the doggies are those blurred black spots....


Yest I jogged, brisk walked, climbed 12 storeys, 30 sit ups, did twister for 15mins... Applause pls!!! The amount of exercise I did yest was even more than what I did for the past 5yrs. Yeah.. I was a couch potato... Not anymore... I wanna exercise every alternate days, if my schedule allows to... Most importantly, I wanna shed off the fats accumulated through years of supper and kfc-s.... Cheer for me frenz!!

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I took the RealAge test to find out whether I'm actually younger or older than my actual age.
In between sections of tests, they calculated my RealAge to be younger than my actual age by about 0.5 to 1.2yrs...


The final results was send to me via email:

This is so demoralising. Wahlao!


Go on, find out your RealAge, if you are able to take the blow

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I cant believe I heard a crow croaked just above my head. I was walking the usual path to work. And suddenly, the croak appeared and it sent shivers down my spine. I have heard of stories where the crows recognise and attack humans who did harm to them. But, I didn't kill their family.


I continued walking, after around 10 steps, it croaked again. It didnt get softer. OMG.. I couldnt believe the crow was following me. 'Please dont peck my head!!!' I shouted inside. Nonetheless, I continued walking, hoping to get out of the deserted path. My heart pounded faster with each croak. I was all alone there. I dared not turned back or looked up. I did not even know where was the irritating crow.


Nearing the end of the path, I saw a man. Phew.... At least I have someone to help me if that stupid crow decided to 'kiss' me. Finally, I reached the end, where the paths joined to the main road... I was really relieved... I wondered will the man experience the same thing as me.

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11th May--

Labels: Family

The neoprints we took before KTV..









Can I take neoprint again next time?? * Big Grins....


Momo's been efficient. No need to wait til Vesak Day!!



Huishan and Wanyu...


Huishan is our 'Zhang Hui Mei' and 'Jolin Tsai'.. Super clear voice....
Wanyu has super high n powerful voice.. aiyo~~ We sound like weak mice beside her...



Gina has the same problem as Momo... Duno how to read Chinese... aiyo... N she left halfway to meet her 24-xiao bf.....



This pic shows clearly my PIMPLE n my big face!!!!



We always do stupid things






4 pretty ladies are MINE!!!



Why we look as though we are strangers...



ohh.. 4got to mention.. Wanyu supposed to stay at home and recuperate... But she dun wanna miss a chance to KTV with us.... hehe... Hope you are recovering well...



Final pic... I wanna have long hair!!!


That's all.....

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See!! Lovely cupcakes baked by my sister.... Nice~~


Might be going gym with Fyebe this friday after work... Dede insisted on tagging along.. Chey.. thought he always say those who go gym are stupid 'cause they pay to exercise when you can run for free below the block... He dun understand.......


Sunday's Mother's Day!!!! We are going to Sentosa for a picnic... with the 2 doggies... Looking forward to it... Heeeeee~~~


Today is Tuesday... I always dread this day 'cause I will be meeting my boss later.... I dont know why.. After I joined this company, I have become withdrawn from people. All the people in this company. Even my colleagues whom I see everyday for 8hrs... This has to stop!! But thinking of it, I still have less than 2 months before my contract ends. Ha~Ha. You can never imagine how elated I am now. Alright, I shall continue to be the quiet and shy girl they know.


This post is rather redundant, I know.

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5th May--


Supposed to meet Vivien and Adeline at Settlers cafe.. But Adeline couldnt make it on that very day... So we postponed it. But we gonna meet Wati and Mai next time... yeah... It's been sucha long time since the day I saw them.. N Wati told me she's got a new haircut.. haha... Excited~~


So after sch, I met CX and Ah ma at Bugis.. CX wanna buy a bag.. Yup she got one that meets her budget.. N as usual, I bot some 'necessities' too.. haha.. Had dinner at V8.... Food's ok... Portion abit small and they give complimentary soup... Nice~~


They went home and I met Dede n Fyebe in town... Went to Balcony for a drink... Keith joined us later.. The guys were discussing soccer, and we had a girls talk... I met Fyebe through Dede... and she's the only one out of so many Dede's gal frenz( or frenz' gf) whom I can really pour out my thoughts... Really have to thank her... N we are going to gym this friday!! hehe...






6th May--


The day finally came!!! Met up with Huishan, Momo, Wanyu and Gina for a K session!!! wahahaha... I realised I'm not a K queen.. coz most of the songs they picked I duno how to sing... yeah... I'm outdated... Oh ya... b4 we went to K, we took neoprints... hehe... My first time... after so many yrs...
I got the scanned neoprints from Wanyu already.. now waiting for the duno-when-will-upload-pics Momo... I hope I dun have to wait til Vesak Day... So will upload the pics next time...


Had dinner with Momo and Huishan at Swensens.. Crapped abit about our sch... I actually felt sleepy... I think I have exhausted all my energy in singing... I duno why but my energy level is always only 50%.. I have been outta house for only 6+hours and I wanna slp!! That's very bad you know.. 'Cause when I'm tired, I'm quiet. My mind will turn slow in processing informations.. aiyo... And when I reached home, I dont feel that tired anymore.. hmm.. Sometimes cant even sleep when I'm supposed to.. That reminds me of last Sunday when i slpt at 4am. ~~Bleah.. Teach me how to boost my energy levels...


Alright... Mei Mei with us yest!!! See!!! so cute~~

Schnappi refused to look at the camera...

Labels: Friends Gathering

I feel so sick todae... I saw a dead dog outside my workplace... Actually I cant confirm whether it's a dog anot 'cause it has started to decompose and its head was gone!!

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